End of Life Checklist Overview

1. Do I want extensive measures to sustain life?

2. What does quality of life mean to me?

• Recognize my loved ones
• Feed myself independently
• Remain mobile and active
• Maintain self-care and dignity

3. What are my practical care preferences?

• Preferred place of care?
• Primary caregiver?
• Comfort preferences: pain management, environment, etc.

4. Who will enforce my wishes?

(Designated Healthcare Proxy or Power of Attorney)

5. Sacred Vigil Period

• The vigil period often lasts a few hours to three days before passing.
• Even in a coma, hearing remains. Speak to the person with love.
• Create a peaceful and supportive environment.

6. Choices at My Passing

• Preferred readings or stories
• Who will wash and dress my body?
• Time at home after passing?
• Check local regulations for procedures.

7. Final Resting Preferences

• Preferred burial, cremation, or eco-friendly option?
• Consider financial, spiritual, and environmental factors.

8. Memorial or Celebration of Life

• Location and format?
• Food and music preferences?
• Guest list and eulogy speaker?

9. Ongoing Remembrance

• Commemorate meaningful traditions
• Celebrate the life and legacy
• Continue honoring their memory